Everyday Feminism Book Review

From a certain vantage point, one could say that while feminism, both as an ideal and a movement was needed in the past, but it is no longer needed. Women are free of the political, social and economic constraints that kept their fore-mothers in virtual slavery. We can do anything and everything that we set our minds to. We are equal to the men around us.

That is a mirage. While it is true that the glass ceiling is breaking, it is far from being completely broken.

In the book Everyday Sexism by Laura Bates (who also founded the website and the movement of the same name), Ms. Bates explores how sexism and misogyny are still rampant in our world. Using tweets, interviews, statistics and personal stories of women coming from women around the world, the book shows that despite our progress, we still have a long way to go.

She talks about everything from the ideal and unattainable image of women coming out of Hollywood and Madison Ave, to workplace discrimination, pay disparity between men and women and the scary statistics of rape and sexual assault. The women whose experiences are profiled in the book are of all ages, all income and educational levels and come from various parts of the world. But their experiences are frighteningly similar.

This book is a revelation, for both men and women. It woke me out of my doldrums. It reminded me that women are still being seen as second class homemakers/cooks/cleaners/baby-makers/sex objects who have yet to achieve the goal of complete equality. We must continue to fight for our rights and our achievements, they were hard-won and will continue to be hard-won. The chapter that stood out for me was the one that reminded me that feminism is not just a fight to be fought by women. We need our male counterparts to fight with us. Without them, our fight will be one-sided and harder to win.

I absolutely recommend this book.


Flashback Friday-While You Were Sleeping (1995)

Any good romantic comedy has to start with at least a decent meet cute. Without that meet cute, the narrative/potential romance is implausible and the audience will have a hard time believing that the main characters will end up together.

In the 1995 romantic comedy While You Were Sleeping, Lucy (Sandra Bullock) is a toll booth operator whose life lacks excitement. The excitement level rises considerably when Lucy saves Peter’s (Peter Gallagher) life and she is believed to be his fiance. Peter’s brother, Jack (Bill Pullman) begins to spend a lot of time with Lucy while his brother is in the hospital. The attraction is real, but so is the fact that Peter is still in the hospital in a comatose state.

As romantic comedies go, this movie is not bad. Is it maybe a little too predictable? Yes, but it could also be a lot worse.

Do I recommend it? Maybe.

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